IoIs when she is in a relationship?

[FNB]

I met this one girl randomly at work. She gave me AIs all the time when I was in the same room as she and when I started talking to her it felt like she like exploded with all kinds of IoIs. Then when I asked for her Facebook and other contact info she gave it "directly" like in a second or so. She is an HB7 but many guys would say she is a SHB10. The reason why she doesn't get a higher mark from me is that I rearly give higher marks to girls than HB7. There are only a few that is HB8, she has to be a "model" to get a SHB9 and a "supermodel" to be SHB10.

The problem with this girl is that she is according to Facebook in a Relationship already. Why did she give me both AIs and then IoIs if she has a boyfriend already? She didn't mention a word about him either so if I wouldn't have had her Facebook account I wouldn't have knowned that she already is in a Relationship. What should I do? Why do girls send both AIs and IoIs when they are already in a Relationship? How to know if she is taken or not? I should ask her but is there any clues or signs that girls sends if she is in a Relationship or not?

[Zyruss Ribeu]

First and most important... the fact that the girl is in a relationship.. doesnt mean that she is happy with it. This shouldnt stop you... unless she insists that it is infact an issue. If she doesnt even mention it... it means she isnt trying to block u out, meaning she likes u.. or she doesnt know u like her and doesnt consider u a threat... (both good)

Second... many girls put "in a relationship" status in their facebook when they are just dating someone so they can show off to their girlfriends that they have a guy. Also other men will see them as desireable girls, which will higher their status (remember girls are naturally really good at this stuff). Sometimes they dont even have no one...

Go for it... act like she doesnt have a BF... even if she tells u that she has. Then... if she is firm about the BF issue... so u quit it... and try some one else.

PD: work chicks are trouble... be carefull

[dthomas]

I second Zyruss. A lot of the girls I meet on Facebook have a "In a relationship' status." Sometimes it's an inside joke between a girlfriend and them. Sometimes they do it because they are tired of random guys messaging them. And even sometimes they are in a dysfunctional relationship and unhappy thus willing to talk to a guy they met at work..

If a girl says she has a boyfriend NEVER count yourself out. Often things aren't what they seem and even if they are .....what's a little harmless flirting anyway? And tis is the fundamental difference between being ATTRACTIVE and hitting on a girl. In being ATTRACTIVE you are BEING what she wants, making her feel...but never giving her enough reason to think that SHE HAS YOU IN THE BACK IN HER BACK POCKET WHENEVER SHE WANTS. It is that BEING that will allow you to swoop in when a girl is with her boyfriend or guy that likes her and allow her to become attracted to you. You're not setting off her 'creeper' alarm. And think about this- The most unattractive quality a boyfriend or potential guy can have is JEALOUS or OVERPROTECTIVE...so even if a guy sees his girl being a flirty and fun with you, he'll generally keep his mouth shut because he doesn't want to come off as a jealous dude. Hope this shined a little light in the situation and you'll know how to proceed.

Merry Christmas,
Briddick (Dthomas)