Shock and AW...

[Brett]

SO I have been trying this new aproach and close. It takes only about 30 sec to 1 min.

PUA: HI
HB: hi
PUA: so what are you up to night?
HB: I don't know. Or I am with my friends.
PUA: you want to come home with me

IF she does not jump on you with in a min. then you need to countinue with your frame and start talking about something else. Act like this is normal conversation for you. Hold a strong frame

Its all about how you say it. voice tone
I have feild tested it about four times now, and the fourth time i beleive i i finally figure out how to deliver.
With in ten seconds after saying the routine, the girl jumped on me and started kissing me. She did come home with me and left the next morning.... no numbers exchanged. every other time i got a weird look and they walked off. only one did one of the girls come back and talk to me, but by this time i already had plans.

So My question is why does this work?

[dthomas]

Well there are a few reasons why this tactic might have worked for you. When you say to a girl "you want to come home with me(?)" you are displaying direct intent. You might as well say "Would you like to fuck?" What is so crazy about this mini opener routine is that you are saying something so bold that she immediately taken back and thinking "wow, this guy is different!" Now, don't get me wrong, a ton of guys offer themselves up to women but more often than not they make the mistake of 'trying' to cloak their intent as non-intent. An example would be a a guy who walks up and starts asking a women a string of trivial questions like "what do you do?" and "where are you" He thinks he is being sneaky and non-threatening but inside SHE KNOWS all he is really asking is "would you like to come home and fuck me?" So by saying that overtly you are conveying your confidence, boldness, and knowledge of what you want. That alone, will get you some value but rarely will it get you enough to take her home right there and then. The biggest problem with this type of routine and opener is that you have to have build up some sort of value prior to stating your intent. In this situation you need existing value.

SO as you briefly touched on this before, posture, frame control , intonation, prosody, and overall body language has to be convey you are a person of value. That, and you generally need peripheral attraction and comfort namely social proof from other attractive females. To go home with you she has to trust you. By seeing you are talking to other beautiful women, her attraction for you goes up as well as her trust. Her process here is "All these beautiful women are talking to him, he must be a good guy" Although it doesn't really make sense for a guy, it makes sense for a women.

That in mind, know that this type of approach is not for the faint of heart.
And know that most 9s and 10s will not accept your unwarranted offer unless your a mega celebrity or rockstar
And also I'd recommend not using "yes' or "no" questions in beginning of interactions with women. It is better to ask open ended questions and statement that force them to invest into the (new) relationship. cheers

[Michael Carl]

Direct intent yes, but here's a story. I was friends with a girl, she obviously stated her intent not to have sex with me, regardless, we went to my house together, slept beside each other in the same bed and talked a little before falling asleep, without any sexual activity. We just hung out together as close friends, like she might have with any of her own girlfriends. We've been close friends ever since, and she's introduced me to lots of her friends. As if i was a trustworthy type. ;-)