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So I read your Roman Soul Gaze blurb and was intrigued. I haven't tried it in the field yet though because I'm not quite clear on how it is suppose to end. It says, "Gauge her response for how long to draw this out, or cut it short," yet it doesn't specify how to "cut it short" or even a way to tie it back into conversation. I'm assuming that you just wait until it looks like she's might just begin to lose some intensity/focus and then say, "pretty intense huh?" followed by something about how it still feels like our energy is linked and whatnot? Because I'm pretty sure you don't just say, "ok, that's enough now," and then move on. How do you guys usually transition back into conversation while utilizing this new bond that has been formed?

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That's a good question. I've only done the Roman Soul Gaze routine twice, but got eerily intense reactions both times. In my opinion, the most important part is the setup before you are even looking into each others eyes. You don't have to sell her on this being a life changing, intense, electrifying event. Manage expectations so then if it doesn't work it's okay, it was still probably more interesting than anything else she has done all day.

The setup is "We’re going to try something. Some say it's extremely powerful but I just learned it so we'll give it our best. Native Americans (or insert any interesting culture here) used to believe that the left eye was the window to the soul. Here, give me your hands..." Keep eye contact the entire time, this will force her to do the same, and speak confidently. Remind her to keep staring into your eye.

Now, both times I have done this, when I got to the part where I told her "But in looking into my eye you might start to see an older... yet still beautiful me. You also might see my power animal, like a totem" the women have flipped out in an intense and positive way. One of them even asked me "How are you doing this?" and we ended up in a great conversation about the power of the mind.

Done right you should be able to get through the whole thing, but if it doesn't work out have a contingency plan. If you notice her losing eye contact or focus, just cut the routine short and move to a different topic. "We gave it a try... you don't always try weird things with strangers do you? (smile) You've got a good energy, I like that."

TIPS:
Manage expectations.
Keep eye contact always.
Don't rush through the routine.
It won't work if she is really ADD or if it's really loud.
This is a perfect time to hold her hands.
The less distracting of an environment the better.

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