Attraction face

[FNB]

Everyone speeks about how important the attraction face (A1-A3) is and of course for a very good reason. The problem seems to be that I don't understand this phase in the game! :( How does one make a women feel attraction for you? What should I do to get someone feel attracted?

During the last year alone I have been called hot, sexy and even asked out on dates, one SHB even worked to get a one-nighter out of me! Many times it even feels like from meeting it goes directly over the A to the C face or more correctly into a combination of A & C. What in the world is happening here? Where is the A face?

[dthomas]

The attraction phase I believe you are talking about is Mystery's-Mystery method model. In his model he describes three phases of courtship: Attraction, comfort and seduction. The attraction phase does happen before C or comfort whether you are aware of it or not. Attraction can be described as a 'feeling" a women gets when she thinks about you or is around you. To get her to feel you have to display value aka flip her attraction switches which can be explained in our attraction articles. Yes, often times guys neglect to see their natural value that they bring to the table. iIf some girl says you are hot, you have already displayed value, either through your looks, body language or what you said to her. But nonetheless, she became 'attracted' before you developed any trust or comfort with her. The problem with starting with comfort is that-this is how she meets her friends. It is how she interacts with siblings and relatives. By starting with comfort, you are slotting yourself in her brain as 'friend" as 'plutonic" as nonsexual relationship, rather than lover/boyfriend, etc

Is it possible to display value and not even be aware of it?

HELL YES, it is what we as Attractive men strive to do. Ideally, you want everything you do and are to be attractive while the whole time you are NOT having to 'think' about it. This is how men who are naturally successful with women are. They aren't self analyzing their every single move wondering if they have 'attraction' or not. They simply are present and know that it will eventually work out in their favor. So to conclude, attraction always happens first even when it may seem on the surface that you did nothing profound or attractive......but it always, always comes before comfort.