The question is in the title. What do you guys think? Is it possible to find Love in all of this 'game'? Do you want to find love? How does the life of a player compare to the life of a man in a monogamous relationship? Where and at what point do you enter a monogamous relationship? Where and at what point do you maintain lighter, more casual relationships?
Take a moment and ask yourself these questions and rather than logically sort through the pros and cons, just pay attention to how you feel. Your intuition will generally nudge you towards a right answer.