When to get sexual?

[dthomas]

So guys, what are your thoughts on when to put a sexual frame around the interaction with a women? Is it in the first few sentences? the first five minutes? The second date? Does it depend on the type of women you are interacting with? Does it depend on the type of relationship you want? Let's hear your thoughts!
-Dthomas

[Gabe, aka Prof.]

You can be sexual at just about any point in the interaction and I personally lean towards sooner than later. It's going to vary depending on the situation, say a Las Vegas strip club vs. church (I assume). The Vegas strip is a much more sexual atmosphere that is very easy to ramp up the sexual attraction in a natural way.

I have heard many guys make the excuse of not setting a sexual frame with a woman because they are looking for a certain type of relationship. I think that's a bunch of b.s. Women are just as sexual as guys but they are better at not being horny. In my mind I have a big time separation between the definition of being sexual and being horny. Hell, take five minutes and pull up some videos of a youthful Hugh Hefner.

What are the consequences for NOT setting a sexual frame? Staying just friends.