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Dear Newbie: How To Improve Faster
It easy when first getting into this to read everything there is to read. That what I did when I began, it started with Neil Strauss’ The Game and lead to an interest in David DeAngelo, posts on Fast Seduction and now have I accumulated material from most other Guru’s; some of which has been useful information. (Side note: We’ve been compiling some guru interviews to share but that’s for another post.)
See, I approached learning about attraction with a fairly solid belief system intact but also an open mind to learning from experience. I feel both of these were critical for success. Sometimes what I was reading would challenge my belief system and when this would happen I would have three options.
1. Instantly accept what I was reading over my own belief system
2. Instantly accept my own belief over what I was reading
3. Go out with an educated open mind and learn from the experience
I continue to chose number three.
Bluntly put, guys that don’t succeed are either too gullible or too stubborn to go out and challenge their belief system with the experience necessary to progress. Success will come from the combination of learning AND going out and being social, networking and leading a dynamic life.
To improve you must understand that progression will happen by reading but also doing. Here’s how. Read enough material to understand and challenge some of your ideas and beliefs without getting overwhelmed. Go out and practice making note of what gets good results, and then when you hit a sticking point come back and figure out what you can do to improve next time WITHOUT dwelling on the negative. Mastery in any subject is a series of plateaus, persistence is essential.
That’s it for now, but as we move into 2009 no time is better to set some expectations and real goals. Here are some goal setting tips I was just reviewing for myself, I find it valuable to set both personal and career related goals.
* Determine what you want to achieve
* Put the goal in writing
* Set a time deadline for the attainment of the goal
* Develop a plan and work the plan
* Visualize a successful result
* Maintain a positive attitude
* Measure your progress and make adjustments, where needed
* Persist until you reach your goal
Dear Newbie: How To Improve Faster - Permanent Link - Seduction Blog
See, I approached learning about attraction with a fairly solid belief system intact but also an open mind to learning from experience. I feel both of these were critical for success. Sometimes what I was reading would challenge my belief system and when this would happen I would have three options.
1. Instantly accept what I was reading over my own belief system
2. Instantly accept my own belief over what I was reading
3. Go out with an educated open mind and learn from the experience
I continue to chose number three.
Bluntly put, guys that don’t succeed are either too gullible or too stubborn to go out and challenge their belief system with the experience necessary to progress. Success will come from the combination of learning AND going out and being social, networking and leading a dynamic life.
To improve you must understand that progression will happen by reading but also doing. Here’s how. Read enough material to understand and challenge some of your ideas and beliefs without getting overwhelmed. Go out and practice making note of what gets good results, and then when you hit a sticking point come back and figure out what you can do to improve next time WITHOUT dwelling on the negative. Mastery in any subject is a series of plateaus, persistence is essential.
That’s it for now, but as we move into 2009 no time is better to set some expectations and real goals. Here are some goal setting tips I was just reviewing for myself, I find it valuable to set both personal and career related goals.
* Determine what you want to achieve
* Put the goal in writing
* Set a time deadline for the attainment of the goal
* Develop a plan and work the plan
* Visualize a successful result
* Maintain a positive attitude
* Measure your progress and make adjustments, where needed
* Persist until you reach your goal
Dear Newbie: How To Improve Faster - Permanent Link - Seduction Blog
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